Saturday, January 26, 2008

Pent Up Dom Energy

My girl has been out of town for the past few days. she went on a weekend trip with her friends. I do miss her. she will be back tomorrow and I do plan on working out a lot of this pent up Dom energy! I will try to be gentle... ok not really but you know what I mean.

Will I tie up My girl tomorrow? Yes. Will it be spanking or hot candle wax burning? Havent decided yet. hmm maybe both. Will I make her beg Me to stop spanking and or burning her? Probably. Will I make her beg Me for permission to cum? Everytime. Will I make her beg for My cum? For sure and probably while slapping her and calling her My slut and My whore.

Do I want to see her at My feet looking up at Me adoringly? Of course. Do I want her curled in My lap or laying with her head on My chest, feeling completely safe and loved? Definately yes to both.

Do I want her submissive and obedient? Always

5 comments:

Kitten said...

Sounds like you have quite a time planned for her! If she's anything like me after several days of no contact, she'll have a lot of pent up "sub energy" too!

-Kitten

Naughty Girl said...

I'm of a curious nature so please bear with me as I ask these questions. And I hope that nothing comes across as offensive. I don't mean for it to!

1. Is the D/s relationship based on love or just control?

2. Are "safe words" allowed and if it is used does the D feel like the s is some how lacking because she couldn't take it?

3. I understand that there is a fine line where pain is concerned, but you don't really want to hurt her do you? I mean would you do something to physically (something that would require medical attention) hurt her?

4. Does the D/s relationship apply to every aspect of your life or just the sex?

Chantal said...

Wow. That was kinda...hot.

HisGirl said...

Naughty: Hope you don't mind if i answer here a little & then Daddy can chime in when He chooses. No worries about me being offended by the way!

1. Is the D/s relationship based on love or just control?
-Absolutely it is a real relationship. my opinion only, but i don't think 24/7 is possible without a WHOLE lot of vanilla. We work, we have friends, social lives, & outside interests. He is my man...& my Dom. For us, D/s isn't less than a traditional relationship, it is more.

2. Are "safe words" allowed and if it is used does the D feel like the s is some how lacking because she couldn't take it?
-We don't use them because we don't need them. He sees it as His job to know my limits & what i can take. We also don't "scene" in a traditional sense. We don't "take it on the road" like some brave souls do. Safe word, no, but He certainly knows what my limits are & what the signs of distress are.

3. I understand that there is a fine line where pain is concerned, but you don't really want to hurt her do you? I mean would you do something to physically (something that would require medical attention) hurt her?
-Absolutely not. He is more concerned about my health & well being that i am! While He enjoys outward signs of His handiwork (ie bruises & welts), i have a VERY public life, so those outward signs are always where only He would see them & are just for Him.

4. Does the D/s relationship apply to every aspect of your life or just the sex?
-absolutely every part. There are times of course when real life over rules things, & we need to work together as a team, but that doesn't mean He isn't always a Dom. So, yes, it does permiate every part of our lives. During sex it is of course glaringly obvious, but other times are more subtle, but still present-if someone was to pay attention!

Anonymous said...

Hi everyone thanks for reading. naughty has questions.I like questions so let Me take a shot. I see My girl already responded. her answers please Me. everyone be nice to her!

1. Is the D/s relationship based on love or just control?
- I believe much of the control I have over My girl is derived from trust and devotion. these are vital in our D/s. add to that alot of compatability,intimacy and time spent together how can love not be present?

2. Are "safe words" allowed and if it is used does the D feel like the s is some how lacking because she couldn't take it
-I dont like safe words.I dont like that kind of forfeiture of control. she gave control to Me she needs to trust Me with it. I know her limits and how hard to push.

3. I understand that there is a fine line where pain is concerned, but you don't really want to hurt her do you? I mean would you do something to physically (something that would require medical attention) hurt her?
-I dont hurt My girl;I subject her to moments of pain, discomfort and humiliation. I work hard at making her stronger not weaker.

4. Does the D/s relationship apply to every aspect of your life or just the sex?
-We are total power exchange. I am always her D and she is always My s. I expect submission and obedience at all times. Let me also say that part of her submission to Me is trusting that I am not insane with power. I allow her to decide the things she must. Its not like I say "you have to quit your job and you may only speak french from now on!" even though I could say that. Hmmm I kinda like the french idea...