Monday, March 3, 2008

Ask Me First

I expressed to My girl that from now on I want her to ask permission for any activities she plans or intends on attending. We had this conversation before but I have never really been adamant on the subject. So from now on I dont want hear her say "I am going with so and so to here on this day" rather I want to hear her ask "Daddy is it ok if I go with so and so to here on this day?" Easy enough and totally submissive.

I desire this of her for a few reasons. Its a reminder of her submission to Me. her time is mine and I will ultimately decide how its used. Its also an exercise in trust. My girl needs to trust in the decisions I make for us and for her, she needs to trust that although I totally control her I am not totally controlling. And finally by asking permission, she will always know for sure that I know about and am not displeased with where she is planning on going or what she is planning on doing. No worries and no surprises that way.

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